How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 02:19
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Why does Boko Haram attack its own Muslims?
Ask yourself:
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What I need from you?
Do you regret being married to your current wife?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Did Trump show us once again that he is a master debater?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Procrastinates a lot.
Does not procrastinate.
What is your review of Kota Factory Season 3 (TVF Original)?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Hangs out with loser friends.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How safe is it to travel to Kashmir in 2024?
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Has your mother ever walked in on you at an inappropriate time?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Why do I (45, male) feel like I'm crushing on a girl (19, female)?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Why is there no great temptress figure in any of Tolkien’s major works?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
That's it for today.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.